Saturday, October 5, 2019

The Redefining of Marriage

My hope for humanity moving forward after the Supreme Court Ruling on same-sex marriage is this. Those who believe marriage is between a man and a women will not be labeled as bigots and dismissed out to the debate on what is best for society. However it is important to stress those of us who do believe in traditional marriage must be respectful and kind as we address this sensitive topic.  We should to never be rude or make jokes of the LGBTQ community or those who defend it.  
Like Alexander Dushku touch on in this video we supporters of traditional marriage should separate ourselves from those who miss treat people for the LGBTQ community. We need to protect their rights and choices of expression. That being said we must also stand up for our right to disagree with their live style. Maintaining a balance between the two.  I found it disheartening that in Obergefell v. Hodges   (2015) only one paragraph was dedicated to protecting the rights of religions and those who practice those religions from condemning same-sex marriage, (pg 27). It felt more like, “Oh yeah, we better same something about the Frist Amendment to make the religious fanatics happy.”
When I worked in a restaurant the waiters would sometimes get stiffed by the people they served.  Most had had the experience of a customer who did not leave no tip. We would commented to each other how lousy it would feel receiving nothing. Though, we universally agreed getting nothing was not as bad as getting a few coins, or worse, the ultimate insult one coin.  At least if they left nothing we could imagine in their hurry to beat the traffic to the next event of the evening they had forgotten to leave a few bill. However, one coin was a slap in the face to a server. That single paragraph written by the five judges who changed history for our nation, felt more like a coin left on the table.
A few insights that I found interesting were how all four judges that dissented worried that the decision overstepped its bounds. For example, Alito words gave a perfect word of warning with this statement.
“Today’s decision shows that the decades of attempts to restrain this Court’s abuse of its authority have failed. A lesson that some will take from today’s decision is that preaching about the proper method of interpreting the Constitution or the virtues of judicial self-restraint and humility cannot compete with the temptation to achieve what is viewed as a noble end by any practicable means. I do not doubt that my colleagues in the majority sincerely see in the Constitution a vision of liberty that happens to coincide with their own. But this sincerity is cause for concern, not comfort. What it evidences is the deep and perhaps irremediable corruption of our legal culture’s conception of constitutional interpretations.
Most American-understandably-will cheer or lament today’s decision because of their views on the issue of same-sex marriage. But all Americans, whatever their thinking on that issue, should worry about what the majority’s claim of power portends.” (Alito, pg. 8)
Honestly, it scares me that such a decision was made more from personal opinions and less on the actual interpretation of the law. This type of power the Supreme Court has should not be used lightly. We as citizens need to be diligent in demanding that the rights of the states have the say for what is best for us. As our founding fathers of this great nation intended.  


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